Well im back on my blogger shid... and I had to start with something to sizzle the brain...

Why Men Cheat?

Women are constantly asking themselves that question... Asking their girlfriend that question.. Asking their own boyfriend/Husband that question. Its actually a very debatable question. Well this is the Juan version.

I believe that men cheat because of society and the way a human mind works. I say the way the mind works because, we as humans are usually never satisfied.. We always want more, we always want to step to the next level and not become complacent. Cheating is another form a greed. Anybody can cheat with that being said, but for some odd reason society and men think they will have a better chance at it. Its quite ironic, because from my experience females are the best cheaters, they dont get caught unless they want to.

So i stated greed and society as reasons, i also want to bring up pride. Pride as in the man wanting to know if he still has "it". For some reason men are curious beings when in a committed relationship. "Can I still get a bitch number?" "Is my Swagg still up to par?" <--------- That shid leads to fuckin cheating. We want our cake and we want to eat it too. Also in a "Mans World" cheating is not really looked upon as a bad thing by other men. Its fucked up but its the honest truth. If the majority a men dont give a fuck that one man is fucking up. The shid is just going to continue to happen. Those to me are like the petty, dumb reasons niggas cheat, but i also have some reasons we cheat that I analyze in my head, and it could have been prevented with just communication. Okay ladies.. yah gonna hate me for this, but nagging really leads to cheating, and honestly I think that this is one of the biggest reasons men cheat. Its not a good reason, but "nagging" is like a paper cut, its not lethal it doesnt have a high chance of it killing you, but its something u rather live your life without. Its annoying, and the best way to get rid of a man. Most females dont like to admit that they nag, and when that happens the man looks at it as if he has no other alternative. Man I feel like "nagging" takes out the inner beauty of any female. That shid make u look ugly in my eyes. Its taken to this extent because nagging usually consist of a small ass problem that females hype to the biggest extent. You stop nagging he wont cheat. Miscommunication in general leads to cheating, you people in relationships.. SIT DA FUCK DOWN AND TALK! DONT BBM THE PROBLEM! DONT TEXT THE PROBLEM! DONT MAKE THE PROBLEM UR FB STATUS! DONT TWEET THE DAMN PROBLEM! Sit down face to face or on the phone and talk about the problem, come to an understanding of what the issue and figure out the solution. A Relationship is a Team that has no Star Player, so its a joint effort. And finally Space. Give each other that space to do what each other wants to do. Smothering a person will easily lead to CHEATING!!! Its not healthy, u will bore the other person to fucking death, they get curious and want to see what else the world has to offer. U signed ur own "Cheat on me Application" lls, but seriously being different is what brought u together, so let urselfs do what make each individual happy, as long as it doesnt disrespect the relationship in any way, its okay. DONT TRY TO PUT UR VIEWS ON UR PARTNER!!! If yah mad at each other give each other a hour or 2 to calm down. If its real love, yah not gonna do shid out the ordinary like after the argument leave and go fuck somebody outta anger. Thats not happening.. So Give each other space. Let the ladies have their ladies night. LADIES LET THE NIGGAS HAVE THEIR 2k MADDEN Black Ops night... Space is so essential.